Death Defying Acts-Part 31: To Be or Not To Be
Embodiments of Love!
I
have been observing Mahalaya Paksham-14 days Pitru Paksham, the period for
offering sesame seeds and water to the departed, for the past many years after
the demise of my father;
I
normally do not shave in that period; my wife objects to this as I have not
devoted much time to her at any point of my partnership with her
On
23 rd September, I even declared that I might quit prayer and other rituals and
retain only SIVA Pooja and Gayathri Japa only for the rest of my time;
24
th September, Wednesday being the last day of the period of offering to the
departed, I performed the water and sesame seed offering to the departed souls;
Then
a thought came to my mind that I should pack all the framed photos of the
Gods/Goddesses and stop my worship; this was not a frustrated decision; I
thought somewhere I needed to stop conflict
But
my inner being said that somebody would die if I did this; this thought
horrified me
Also
I am born with the belief and faith; so I postponed;
At
14:30 hours my wife called me that my sister in law, Shrimathi kalyani Manni
(wife of my cousin brother, Shri jayaraman - son of my father’s elder brother-)
expired this day in the morning
I
was shocked; this death as per our custom means –No prayer for the next 13
days-
Note:
The Festival of Navrathri starts from this day and we cannot do any formal
prayer to my Mother Kali this time
Do
you understand what I am talking about?
धन्यवाद:
See you in the next episode
With lots of love
श्वस्ति , मङ्गलं भूयात्
राजगोपालः
rajagopal
24.09.2014