Embodiments
of Love!
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part of any advertisement campaign for Silnedafil Citrate( VIAGRA)
Statutory
Warning:
The contents
are meant for YOUNGSTERS only; hence old people may avoid reading this or you
may have to get permission from your spouse to read further.
Sloka 5-Soundarya lahari
हरिस्त्वामाराध्य
प्रणतजनसौभाग्यजननीं
पुरा
नारी भूत्वा पुररिपुमपि क्षोभमनयत्
स्मरोऽपि
त्वां नत्वा रतिनयनलेह्येनवपुषा
मुनीनामप्यन्तः प्रभवति हि मोहाय महताम् ॥५॥
Transliteration
hari stwaam aaraadhya pranata jana soubhaagya jananeem
puraa naaree bhootwaa pura ripum api kshobha manayat;
smaropi twaam
satwaa rati nayana laehyaena vapushaa
muneenaam apy antah prabhavati hi mohaaya mahataam.
Simple Meaning:
Oh! Mother, the very cause of
auspiciousness to people who worship You, Once Sri Hari having worshipped you,
has become an astonishingly beautiful woman and agitated the mind of even Lord
Siva and stole his pride. Having bowed to you, Smara (cupid) too is blessed
with an eternally handsome appearance which is like a soothing liniment to the
eyes of his consort, Rati. With this appearance, he has indeed generated
delusion within hearts of even great sages.
Devi grants all
good things to those who sincerely worship her. By worshipping Devi, Lord
Vishnu took pretty feminine form (of Mohini) and captivated the heart of even
Lord Shiva who had burnt places (and Manmatha with his third eye). Manmatha,
capable of creating love, took the form which is like nectar consumed by his
wife Rathi with her eyes, worshipped Devi and with the power so achieved, he
was able to create passion even in the minds of great sages who were engaged in
severe tapas.
Explanation:
The point is creation of LOVE in the
minds of Her children…creation of sexual drive,if simply stated.
You may think that I am writing about
a forbidden subject.
No, it is not a taboo to talk about
SEX.
Let us not be hypocrites.
If a girl’s saree slips how many men
will turn away their heads? (Of course if wife is nearby there could be some
acting; but he would be cursing his fate about having his wife alongside that
time)
Let us get into science:
Low
Sexual Drive in Women:
For a growing number of women,
declining hormones, job stress,
relationship issues, and other problems are taking their toll in the bedroom.
Loss of sexual desire, known in
medical terms as hypoactive sexual desire disorder (HSDD), is the most common
form of sexual dysfunction among women of all ages. A recent study showed that
nearly one-third of women aged 18 to 59 suffer from a lost interest in sex,
and it's not all in their heads.
Unlike men's main sexual
complaint, erectile
dysfunction, women's biggest sexual problem is caused by a
combination of both mental and physical factors, which aren't likely to be
cured by merely popping a pill.
A woman's desire for sex is based on
a complex interaction of many components affecting intimacy, including physical
well-being, emotional well-being, experiences, beliefs, lifestyle and current
relationship. If you're experiencing a problem in any of these areas, it can affect
your sexual desire.
Psychological causes
Your
problems don't have to be physical or biological to be real. There are many
psychological causes of low sex drive, including:
·
Mental health problems, such as anxiety or depression
·
Stress, such as financial stress or work stress
·
Poor body image
·
Low self-esteem
·
History of physical or sexual abuse
·
Previous negative sexual experiences
Relationship issues
For
many women, emotional closeness is an essential prelude to sexual intimacy. So
problems in your relationship can be a major factor in low sex drive. Decreased
interest in sex is often a result of ongoing issues, such as:
·
Lack of connection with your partner
·
Unresolved conflicts or fights
·
Poor communication of sexual needs and preferences
·
Infidelity or breach of trust
Low
Sexual Drive in men
From
a lack of sleep to having too much to drink, low libido is caused by a number
of physiological, emotional, and lifestyle factors. Here are common issues that
can ruin the mood:
1. Stress. The body reacts
to stress by releasing adrenaline and cortisol. Chronic stress, in particular,
can interfere with your body’s hormone levels, and result in a low libido. The
arteries can also narrow and restrict blood flow in response to stress, which
can also lead to erectile
dysfunction. Stress can also reduce your libido by distracting you
and taking your mind off sexual desire.
2. Depression. Libido and
depression share a complicated link. “Depression can change the body's
biochemistry and therefore reduce libido,” says Mark L. Held, PhD, a clinical
psychologist in the Denver area. “It's also harder to feel sexual when you're
depressed.” Some medications commonly used to treat depression may also lower
libido as a side effect.
3. Low Self-Esteem. It's
hard to feel sexy when your self-confidence is down or when you have an
unhealthy body image. “Someone who feels unattractive is less likely to want to
engage in sex,” says Held. “Fears of rejection may also come in to play.”
Note:
Many of you may not be aware but we
should talk about;
In India, it is always prescribed that
wife should get fulfillment of sexual desires through husband only; it is
perfect if the husband is alive or fit to satisfy; let us analyze a few cases
1)
Child marriage-young girls aged 5 or 6 were married to men of 20
years plus; when she attains puberty that man would be older; when she is at
her peak seeking sexual fulfillment, man would have lost sexual appetite
2) Drunkards: this is
another case wherein girls never get the real sex with enjoyment; still as and
when he forces, she should accept that as sex…isn’t it nonsense yaar?
3) Girls becoming widows
at an young age: in Indian families, in earlier times, these girls would be
lodged in a separate room in the backyard; she would be doing penance during
day but during night, anybody from the husband’s family would be entitled to
enjoy her; to ensure confidentiality, she would have tonsured( clean shaven
head) and barred from interacting with outsiders; she could not attend
functions stamped as inauspicious( this rule was not applicable to men who lose
their wives; he could marry 1000 girls if he had libido in tact; this atrocity
continues even this day)
Now
let us get into analysis;
The
sexual drive is the major motivator for copulation and progeny;
Nowadays we have sex doctors who
contribute to “ healthy sex life”
We have Viagra;
In spite of medical help, you can see
many becoming addicted to whatsapp/facebook even when wife is sleeping next to
them( may be they are talking to another girl)
The data shows that 64% men prefer
whatsapp to wife
Here
we need the help of divine hand;
You may claim that I have all the
pills including sildenafil citrate tablets; you should know side effects:
Include warmth or redness in the face, neck, or
chest; stuffy nose; headaches, stomach pain, nausea, diarrhea, and an inability
to differentiate between the colors green and blue. Loss of hearing, ringing in
the ears and dizziness are other potential side
So Mata Parvati creates the natural affinity so
that our sex life is complete;
You should accept that a sexually contended
person is a balanced person and can do wonders;
So let us surrender unto Mata and get the
complete compliance to Laws of Attraction (towards the opposite sex)
Have Great Sex and be an Achiever !
धन्यवाद:
See you in the next episode
With lots of love
श्वस्ति , मङ्गलं भूयात्
राजगोपालः
rajagopal
13.12.2015
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